She knows because we're ALWAYS doing sh*t we shouldn't be. Or we're thinking about it, or planning it, or finishing it.

oh that's right.. doh!!
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My biggest problem with sex addiction has been people not taking it seriously.

my biggest problem is no one sees it as a problem..well except my counselor and my sponsor and my true friends. i suppose that's the same thing as people not taking it seriously. the second problem is most want to take advantage of my sex addiction. not that i can really blame them i suppose. it's the ones that encourage me that truly frighten me..encourage me to have as many partners as possible..encourage me to take money..try to make me believe there is nothing wrong with it..that sort of thing.
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"Every guy's fantasy is my nightmare".

i like that MDS. pretty well says it all and in so few words.
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I think for me the big wake up call was sitting down and writing down the names of every girl I had fu*ked over the past year, the ones I could remember.

i did that as part of my step 4 and 5. i think what hit me the hardest was facing the fact most people can count on one maybe two hands how many people they have slept with. i can't remember all the men i've slept with. every once in awhile something will remind me of someone i forgot to put on my list and i'll think omg not another one. i'm guessing it's somewhere between 50 and a 100. most of those being in the last year i'd say.
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The good thing about hitting bottom, is that although the climb out is steep, at least you're getting out.

i thought i was getting out. i've hit some new lows just recently though that's thrown me off a bit.