The new exbf ... it lasted all of one week...

I started seeing my buddy from NA again. At least i think we were seeing each other. We went to a few movies, sorta hung out at new years, talked on the phone everyday pretty well. I'd call that dating. I don't think it's going to turn out any different this time than last time.

There's just something about the dynamics that doesn't work for me. I get all caught up in what i should be doing, how i should be acting, what's normal, is he being normal, am i being weird? But the bottom line is i'm ending up at home bingeing and puking over the whole situation. So whether he's normal or not he's not the guy for me.

I saw him at a meeting friday nite. We said hi, hugged, exchanged a few words and that was it. Saturday i text messaged him, i said "morning" then later on said "if you wanna hang out later call me". I was busy all day from 730am on and i thought he was too when he didn't even text message me back. Just before 7pm he phones. He asks me what i did all day, i eventually ask him what he did all day. He did nothing. He washed his truck and took an "insert his name here" S day. Huh???

Okay fair enough everyone needs a day to themselves. He tells me he's just about to walk into a meeting. He didn't phone me and ask me to go. I ask if he's gonna drop by later and he laughs. He starts talking about some movie he really wants to go see and that it's playing that night at ten. We yack on about something else. I realise he's gonna be going in to the meeting pretty soon and ask him again are you going to be dropping by later ( code for or are we going to a movie ) and he says no he's made plans to go over to a buddy's house who works for him. Huh??? So what's he telling me about a movie at ten that nite for???

I don't expect a guy to be obsessed with me ( well actually i do but that's not the point :D ) but c'mon, i get 4 days every 14 to myself and he gets 14. If you aren't planning to do something with me at least once in the two days i have without my kids then we ain't dating. So i haven't called him since and he of course hasn't called me.

Far as i'm concerned we can be friends but i'm dating other people. I wouldn't think too much of his behavior if he hadn't gone on and on about how much he likes me and how he's liked me from the first day he saw me walk into the rooms yada yada... and if he hadn't already had me naked in his living room before now ( we didn't have sex, he won't have sex with me ) and let me sleep in his bed overnite ( with a t shirt and no sex ).

So i think i'm done with that one for now. On the upside because i was sitting home saturday nite alone i ended up going on a date with a guy from online i've been wanting to meet for awhile now. It worked out really good... :) No sex... lol.